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		<title>By: Joe</title>
		<link>http://www.radicalparenting.com/2008/04/22/help-tackling-cyberbullying/comment-page-1/#comment-39099</link>
		<dc:creator>Joe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jun 2011 17:42:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am so excited that people have been talking about Mousemail here! It truly is the best email and text message monitoring service available today (and it&#039;s free)! It provides a safe and secure online environment for children (there are many games and other child friendly activities to choose from). 

What is best about Mousemail however, is it&#039;s ability to intercept inappropriate incoming/outgoing emails and text messages, sending them to parents before they reach the children. So if a child is sent an email or text with harmful content, it goes to the parent for review, so the child cannot see it unless the parent decides that they can. 
Also, if anybody posts something inappropriate on a child&#039;s facebook page, the email notification of the post will also be diverted and sent to the parent, not the child. This way, the parent can take apropriate action. 

Vanessa, I saw that you include certain products in your recommendationds section. Would you be willing to include Mousemail in that list? It is a product that really helps families in ther digital age. Furthermore, the parent company, Safe communications inc. is dedicated to protecting our children. Check it out! https://secure.mousemail.com

Thanks, 

Joe</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so excited that people have been talking about Mousemail here! It truly is the best email and text message monitoring service available today (and it&#8217;s free)! It provides a safe and secure online environment for children (there are many games and other child friendly activities to choose from). </p>
<p>What is best about Mousemail however, is it&#8217;s ability to intercept inappropriate incoming/outgoing emails and text messages, sending them to parents before they reach the children. So if a child is sent an email or text with harmful content, it goes to the parent for review, so the child cannot see it unless the parent decides that they can.<br />
Also, if anybody posts something inappropriate on a child&#8217;s facebook page, the email notification of the post will also be diverted and sent to the parent, not the child. This way, the parent can take apropriate action. </p>
<p>Vanessa, I saw that you include certain products in your recommendationds section. Would you be willing to include Mousemail in that list? It is a product that really helps families in ther digital age. Furthermore, the parent company, Safe communications inc. is dedicated to protecting our children. Check it out! <a href="https://secure.mousemail.com" rel="nofollow">https://secure.mousemail.com</a></p>
<p>Thanks, </p>
<p>Joe</p>
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		<title>By: Steve</title>
		<link>http://www.radicalparenting.com/2008/04/22/help-tackling-cyberbullying/comment-page-1/#comment-39094</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2011 21:25:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mousemail is an amazing product!! Anyone with young kids should be using it! Here is why it is so unique: Like its competitors, it keeps parents informed of harmful interactions in cyberspace. However, it also protects children from the harmful effects of those interactions.  by intercepting inappropriate emails and texts and diverting them to parents, kids do not see them and never have to deal with the pain they can inflict. 

This is a very special product and it is totally free! I bet they could make a lot of money with it if it wasn&#039;t free though!

Steve</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mousemail is an amazing product!! Anyone with young kids should be using it! Here is why it is so unique: Like its competitors, it keeps parents informed of harmful interactions in cyberspace. However, it also protects children from the harmful effects of those interactions.  by intercepting inappropriate emails and texts and diverting them to parents, kids do not see them and never have to deal with the pain they can inflict. </p>
<p>This is a very special product and it is totally free! I bet they could make a lot of money with it if it wasn&#8217;t free though!</p>
<p>Steve</p>
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		<title>By: Brenda</title>
		<link>http://www.radicalparenting.com/2008/04/22/help-tackling-cyberbullying/comment-page-1/#comment-39065</link>
		<dc:creator>Brenda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 May 2011 17:05:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John, 

The product you need is called Mousemail and is offered for FREE from SafeCommunications inc. It is by far the best email and text filtering service available and offers one of a kind protection. Mousemail filters a child&#039;s incoming and outgoing emails and text messages for inappropriate content. Any messages that are flagged for harmful content (as the emails sent to yor son Joshua would have been) are diverted to the parent for review and approval BEFORE they reach the child. Parents can decide whether or not to allow their child to see the flagged message(s). 

So John, if you signed up for Mousemail and Joshua continued to be cyberbullied through his email, only you would see the harmful emails, not Joshua. So Mousemail keeps you aware of the hateful emails but protects Joshua from the pain of cyberbullying because he never has to see those emails if you don&#039;t want him too! I would strongly recommend this product to you. It works great for me and is totally free. Here is a link to the website: http://www.mousemail.com/ 

Best of luck to you and your son!

Brenda</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John, </p>
<p>The product you need is called Mousemail and is offered for FREE from SafeCommunications inc. It is by far the best email and text filtering service available and offers one of a kind protection. Mousemail filters a child&#8217;s incoming and outgoing emails and text messages for inappropriate content. Any messages that are flagged for harmful content (as the emails sent to yor son Joshua would have been) are diverted to the parent for review and approval BEFORE they reach the child. Parents can decide whether or not to allow their child to see the flagged message(s). </p>
<p>So John, if you signed up for Mousemail and Joshua continued to be cyberbullied through his email, only you would see the harmful emails, not Joshua. So Mousemail keeps you aware of the hateful emails but protects Joshua from the pain of cyberbullying because he never has to see those emails if you don&#8217;t want him too! I would strongly recommend this product to you. It works great for me and is totally free. Here is a link to the website: <a href="http://www.mousemail.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.mousemail.com/</a> </p>
<p>Best of luck to you and your son!</p>
<p>Brenda</p>
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		<title>By: Vanessa Van Petten</title>
		<link>http://www.radicalparenting.com/2008/04/22/help-tackling-cyberbullying/comment-page-1/#comment-39053</link>
		<dc:creator>Vanessa Van Petten</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 May 2011 00:47:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am so sorry to hear this! I think possible Social Shield might do it...if they don&#039;t try asking them if they know a service that does.

Best,

Vanessa</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so sorry to hear this! I think possible Social Shield might do it&#8230;if they don&#8217;t try asking them if they know a service that does.</p>
<p>Best,</p>
<p>Vanessa</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 May 2011 20:30:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>few months ago some of my son Joshua&#039;s friends started bullying him online. They would send him hateful emails and text messages to his phone. After a while, he started to get depressed and didn&#039;t want to go to school. As a result his grades started to drop and he became more and more unhappy. His friends called him &quot;fag&quot; and told him nobody liked him. I only know this because I had to check his email one night when he was sick and needed information on a school project. I was so angry and so sad for my son. He is just such an innocent and sweet 10 year old boy. 

Seeing how the cyberbullying was affecting my son made me worry that he might try to hurt himself (as many victims of cyberbullying have done). When I spoke to Joshua about the emails and texts he had been receiving, he was embarassed and begged me not to get his bullies in trouble (he was worried about being retaliated against for tattling). 
I did however speak with Joshua&#039;s vice principal about the issue and she said her hands were tied since the bullying happened off school grounds. When I explained how the cyberbullying was affecting Joshua&#039;s academic performance and his happiness, she said she would look into the situation. The bullying did not stop and I never heard back from the school (not unusual from what I hear). 

I decided to start monitoring my son&#039;s emails and text messages so I could be aware of what was happening. I looked into many parental control options but was unimpressed by what I found. These services are expensive and are essentially spyware. They force parents to spend hours going through all their child&#039;s emails and texts (I don&#039;t have time for this because I work and I am a single dad). Also, what is the point of having parental control software if the kid continues to receive hurtful messages? For Joshua, getting these hateful emails is devastating to him, whether or not I am aware of them. 

I am wondering if anybody out there knows of a monitoring or filtering service that can prevent bad emails from getting through to my son. Does anybody know of anything like this?

Thanks, 

John</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>few months ago some of my son Joshua&#8217;s friends started bullying him online. They would send him hateful emails and text messages to his phone. After a while, he started to get depressed and didn&#8217;t want to go to school. As a result his grades started to drop and he became more and more unhappy. His friends called him &#8220;fag&#8221; and told him nobody liked him. I only know this because I had to check his email one night when he was sick and needed information on a school project. I was so angry and so sad for my son. He is just such an innocent and sweet 10 year old boy. </p>
<p>Seeing how the cyberbullying was affecting my son made me worry that he might try to hurt himself (as many victims of cyberbullying have done). When I spoke to Joshua about the emails and texts he had been receiving, he was embarassed and begged me not to get his bullies in trouble (he was worried about being retaliated against for tattling).<br />
I did however speak with Joshua&#8217;s vice principal about the issue and she said her hands were tied since the bullying happened off school grounds. When I explained how the cyberbullying was affecting Joshua&#8217;s academic performance and his happiness, she said she would look into the situation. The bullying did not stop and I never heard back from the school (not unusual from what I hear). </p>
<p>I decided to start monitoring my son&#8217;s emails and text messages so I could be aware of what was happening. I looked into many parental control options but was unimpressed by what I found. These services are expensive and are essentially spyware. They force parents to spend hours going through all their child&#8217;s emails and texts (I don&#8217;t have time for this because I work and I am a single dad). Also, what is the point of having parental control software if the kid continues to receive hurtful messages? For Joshua, getting these hateful emails is devastating to him, whether or not I am aware of them. </p>
<p>I am wondering if anybody out there knows of a monitoring or filtering service that can prevent bad emails from getting through to my son. Does anybody know of anything like this?</p>
<p>Thanks, </p>
<p>John</p>
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		<title>By: Elena</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Jan 2011 21:22:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello! I just started reading all of this, starting with social shield, but I checked out Spokeo for the heck of it and found it to have some quite incorrect info. It was pretty basic, since I didn&#039;t pay for the service, but it had several things that were incorrect about me. Just thought I would post that-it would be a shame to use inaccurate information when checking things out to keep one&#039;s kids safe.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello! I just started reading all of this, starting with social shield, but I checked out Spokeo for the heck of it and found it to have some quite incorrect info. It was pretty basic, since I didn&#8217;t pay for the service, but it had several things that were incorrect about me. Just thought I would post that-it would be a shame to use inaccurate information when checking things out to keep one&#8217;s kids safe.</p>
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		<title>By: Seguridad en Internet &#171; RECURSOS SOCIO-EDUCATIVOS</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 08:36:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Breakingthecycles.com - Changing the Conversations &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Help Stop Cyberbullying!</title>
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		<dc:creator>Breakingthecycles.com - Changing the Conversations &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Help Stop Cyberbullying!</dc:creator>
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		<title>By: Ron</title>
		<link>http://www.radicalparenting.com/2008/04/22/help-tackling-cyberbullying/comment-page-1/#comment-721</link>
		<dc:creator>Ron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2008 16:10:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent post!  Cyberbullying is a big problem that parents need to address.

Thanks for mentioning Safe Eyes here.  A feature that might be of interest...parents can configure Safe Eyes to record IM conversations, so parents can see exactly what&#039;s going on with a bullying incident.

I just signed up for your ebook list.  I&#039;m looking forward to reading that.

(By the way, coupon code &quot;BLOGGER&quot; will save 10% if you or any of your readers would like to try it out.)

Ron</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent post!  Cyberbullying is a big problem that parents need to address.</p>
<p>Thanks for mentioning Safe Eyes here.  A feature that might be of interest&#8230;parents can configure Safe Eyes to record IM conversations, so parents can see exactly what&#8217;s going on with a bullying incident.</p>
<p>I just signed up for your ebook list.  I&#8217;m looking forward to reading that.</p>
<p>(By the way, coupon code &#8220;BLOGGER&#8221; will save 10% if you or any of your readers would like to try it out.)</p>
<p>Ron</p>
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		<title>By: Vanessa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vanessa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 16:22:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for all of these comments, I am going to check out Spokeo and Lukes article, thanks for reading!

vanessa</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for all of these comments, I am going to check out Spokeo and Lukes article, thanks for reading!</p>
<p>vanessa</p>
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