We are a stop on MommaSaid, Jen Singer’s virtual blog tour today. For parents of youngens!
“Stop Second Guessing Yourself – The Toddler Years” (HCI, April 2009)
The Major Meltdown: “The best way to deal with a tantruming toddler is to get the heck out of wherever you are and don’t look back…It’s the only way your toddler will learn that his manipulative superpowers have no effect on you.”
How to Host a Playdate/Playgroup without Ticking Anyone Off: “Here’s the dirty little secret about playdates: it’s more about the mommies than anyone else. Don’t be fooled into thinking you can sink into a comfy chair with your coffee and dish for an hour or two. Your parenting skills are on display and under scrutiny.”
Beyond Blue’s Clues–Entertaining Your Toddler: “As a full-time stay-at-home mom, I learned how to fill upward of 100 hours a week, some of it with entertaining and even educational activities, yet some of it with letting my toddlers pull all of the tissues out of the box and then stuff them back in. Did I mention it was 100 hours a week?”
Video of the Week
*Pictures of my sisters and I at Disneyland this week! I did not win at Buzzlightyear’s Shooting Game
Teen Trends and News
- EternityMessage: A great way to securely message your kids and loved ones in the future. Send advice to your kids only when age-appropriate and capture the way you feel and think today.
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Book of the Week
Stop Negotiating With Your Teen by Janet Sasson Edgette
Tears for Fears Mad World Lyrics
All around me are familiar faces
Worn out places, worn out faces
Bright and early for their daily races
Going nowhere, going nowhere
And their tears are filling up their glasses
No expression, no expression
Hide my head I want to drown my sorrow
No tomorrow, no tomorrow
And I find it kind of funny
I find it kind of sad
The dreams in which I’m dying
Are the best I’ve ever had
I find it hard to tell you
‘Cos I find it hard to take
When people run in circles
It’s a very, very
Children waiting for the day they feel good
Happy Birthday, Happy Birthday
Made to feel the way that every child should
Sit and listen, sit and listen
Went to school and I was very nervous
No one knew me, no one knew me
Hello teacher tell me what’s my lesson
Look right through me, look right through me