Comments on: Why do Parents Stop Loving Their Children? http://www.radicalparenting.com/2010/07/27/why-do-parents-stop-loving-their-children/ Parenting From The Kids Perspective Mon, 06 Feb 2012 15:51:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Holly http://www.radicalparenting.com/2010/07/27/why-do-parents-stop-loving-their-children/comment-page-1/#comment-38850 Holly Sun, 01 May 2011 23:59:44 +0000 http://www.radicalparenting.com/?p=9062#comment-38850 She needs to get out now while the getting is good...meaning she needs the right help now when she is young before too many mistakes are made. I came from a similar situation where my father abused me and my mother looked the other way. I was kicked out and lived with a school friend for two years until she moved away. I ended up moving in with an older guy just to have a place to stay..big mistake! I stayed for ten years from 17 to 27 in an abusive relationship and finally got out five years ago. My advice would be to go to a jobcenter, call united way, call job corp...I think they help with housing and education. She needs to divorce her parents because the longer it persists the more pain she will endure. It is tough because there arn't many organizations for street kids or kids who are abandoned by the parents. Her only and best bet is to get an education and forget about them. I wish her good luck. She needs to get out now while the getting is good…meaning she needs the right help now when she is young before too many mistakes are made. I came from a similar situation where my father abused me and my mother looked the other way. I was kicked out and lived with a school friend for two years until she moved away. I ended up moving in with an older guy just to have a place to stay..big mistake! I stayed for ten years from 17 to 27 in an abusive relationship and finally got out five years ago. My advice would be to go to a jobcenter, call united way, call job corp…I think they help with housing and education. She needs to divorce her parents because the longer it persists the more pain she will endure. It is tough because there arn’t many organizations for street kids or kids who are abandoned by the parents. Her only and best bet is to get an education and forget about them. I wish her good luck.

]]> By: Dana http://www.radicalparenting.com/2010/07/27/why-do-parents-stop-loving-their-children/comment-page-1/#comment-27484 Dana Sat, 14 Aug 2010 16:22:07 +0000 http://www.radicalparenting.com/?p=9062#comment-27484 I can honestly say this article broke my heart. A very well written article documenting the pain and heart break of a child left alone to solve her own problems. I hope Anna can find a way out of this mess. I hope her close friends can now be her family, if her biological ones won't. She should be strong and never give up on herself. Kudos to such a brave young lady for enduring all that, and the one who wrote this article as well. It opened many peoples eyes to what can really go on sometimes. I can honestly say this article broke my heart. A very well written article documenting the pain and heart break of a child left alone to solve her own problems. I hope Anna can find a way out of this mess. I hope her close friends can now be her family, if her biological ones won’t. She should be strong and never give up on herself. Kudos to such a brave young lady for enduring all that, and the one who wrote this article as well. It opened many peoples eyes to what can really go on sometimes.

]]> By: sandra http://www.radicalparenting.com/2010/07/27/why-do-parents-stop-loving-their-children/comment-page-1/#comment-27388 sandra Thu, 05 Aug 2010 05:02:26 +0000 http://www.radicalparenting.com/?p=9062#comment-27388 Anna needs help in finding a safe place to live. When I speak of saving and protecting children I mean all children. She may be 18 and bright in school, but I don't think she can handled this on her own due to brainwashing, abuse and the feeling of not being loved. Her mother might be in fear of the father, therefore afraid to show her feelings. Ann should not have to live like she does.I would think that there would be safe houses or something similar, especially if abuse is involved. Help her find the assistance she needs. Anna must be aware of her culture and if her father will try to implement punishment if she attempts to go to a safe haven.Having a drivers license is important,but when you are realistic ,with a father like she has he will most likely have her taxi them around and not allow her to do anything else if she is still living in that house.She must claim her independence and live free and safe. Anna needs help in finding a safe place to live. When I speak of saving and protecting children I mean all children. She may be 18
and bright in school, but I don’t think she can handled this on her own due to brainwashing, abuse and the feeling of not being loved.

Her mother might be in fear of the father, therefore afraid to show her feelings. Ann should not have to live like she does.I would think that there would be safe houses or something similar, especially if abuse is involved.

Help her find the assistance she needs. Anna must be aware of her culture and if her father will try to implement punishment if she attempts to go to a safe haven.Having a drivers license is important,but when you are realistic ,with a father like she has he will most likely have her taxi them around and not allow her to do anything else if she is still living in that house.She must claim her independence and live free and safe.

]]> By: Radical trendsetter http://www.radicalparenting.com/2010/07/27/why-do-parents-stop-loving-their-children/comment-page-1/#comment-27243 Radical trendsetter Fri, 30 Jul 2010 04:35:03 +0000 http://www.radicalparenting.com/?p=9062#comment-27243 I do hope things get better for Anna, it does seem like around me there probably are stories just like that, but i wouldn't know because I'm not close to those people, and they don't exactly take well to me. I do understand the license thing though, because she's never had practice or a car to go out and actually take the test I do hope things get better for Anna, it does seem like around me there probably are stories just like that, but i wouldn’t know because I’m not close to those people, and they don’t exactly take well to me. I do understand the license thing though, because she’s never had practice or a car to go out and actually take the test

]]> By: Silver Fang http://www.radicalparenting.com/2010/07/27/why-do-parents-stop-loving-their-children/comment-page-1/#comment-27237 Silver Fang Thu, 29 Jul 2010 16:18:50 +0000 http://www.radicalparenting.com/?p=9062#comment-27237 If Anna's 18, she doesn't need her father's permission to get her license. If Anna’s 18, she doesn’t need her father’s permission to get her license.

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