Do you ever feel like conversing with your teen is like talking to a slouching, eye-rolling, well-coiffed mute? If so, you are not alone.
Many parents frequently have one-way conversations with their children. Most of the time parents are trying to engage their teens or tweens in conversation, but the discussion is one-sided.
What is being said not only lacks meaning, but also nothing is really being shared between the participants. In this way, both parties leave the nonversation feeling empty, frustrated and alone.
One way parents can prevent nonversations is by having table topics and conversation starters at meal times and while driving. Here are a few of my favorites that parents and adults can use with teens (or teens can use these table topics and conversation starters with each other!):
1. If you could be amazingly talented in one sport, which one would you choose?
2. Who is the most successful person you know?
3. What celebrity would play you in a movie?
4. What do you wish you were better saying no at?
5. What is one thing you regret?
6. What do you want to be remembered for?
7. If you could buy one totally frivolous item, what would it be?
8. If you could be a character from any book which one would pick?
9. If you could take a trait from the other gender, which would you choose?
10. Who in the room would survive longest during caveman times?
I love all of these conversation starters and so will teens and tweens.
If you want even more, check out Part I of this post with 20 questions you can use to talk to your teens: 20 Teen and Tween Conversation Starters and Table Topics
Add your conversation starters in the comments!
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