Camps To Make Summer More Exciting

Caitlin Meuser is a 16-year-old from Simsbury, CT. She likes to write, make things with clay, and really wants a dog. Her two favorite subjects are art and English.

Summer is not only a break from tests and papers, but it is also an opportunity for teens to pursue something that interests them on a deeper level. By learning about and cultivating these interests, teens can decide if this hobby is something that they want to continue in the future.

I myself did a summer writing camp at a state university and found it wonderful. The talented instructors shared their obvious love of prose and poetry, and gave daily writing assignments that challenged me in new ways. I left the camp with a greater knowledge about the construction of poems as well as a group of new friends who shared a similar passion for writing.

Showing an early interest in a specified field also looks good on college applications. Admissions officers don’t like to see teens slacking off in the summer. They prefer that teens choose to participate in activities that interest them and show a commitment to a particular subject. Admissions officers view summer as a great time for students to get ahead of their competition.

 

Some important things to keep in mind while picking out a camp are price, the length of the session, and the daily structure. While many programs do offer financial aid to families in need, this aid can be hard to come by. It is true that longer programs are more expensive, but longer programs also allow for teens to learn more about their interest and to make stronger friendships. Finally, the schedule of a typical camp day can be found on most programs’ websites. Look for free time and recreational time allotted everyday, for these “chill sessions” will allow teens to take a much-needed break. After all, it is summer, and it is important that they also have fun while they learn.

 

Writing Camps: Writing Camps provide teens with helpful feedback from teachers and peers. The popular workshop style allows everyone to constructively critique each other’s writing, while traditional lessons teach strategies for writing.

 

  • Young Writer’s Camp at Duke University- located in Durham, NC
  • Sarah Lawrence College Summer Writer’s Workshop- located in Bronxville, NY
  • Wesleyan University Center for Creative Youth- located in Middletown, CT
  • Kenyon Review Young Writers Workshop- located in Gambier, OH
  • Bar College at Simon’s Rock Young Writers Workshop- located in Gt. Barrington, MA

 

Dance Camps: Dance Camps give teens professional instruction in order to perfect and learn new techniques in dancing. They also provide a friendly environment in which teens can meet new friends. Most end with a recital to showcase the work the students have learned.

 

  • New York City Summer Arts Camp for Teens- located in New York, NY
  • The New York Conservatory for Dramatic Art- located in New York, NY
  • Idyllwild Arts Summer Program- located in Idyllwild, CA
  • Interlochen Center for the Arts- located in Interlochen, MI
  • North Carolina Dance Institute- located in Raleigh, NC

 

Acting Camps: Acting Camps offer a plethora of opportunities for budding actors. Helpful instructors, fanciful props, and exciting scripts help to make the performances at the end of each session memorable.

  • Young Actors Camp- located in Hollywood, CA
  • New York Film Academy- located in New York, NY
  • School of Creative and Performing Arts- located in Los Angeles, New York City, and Burlington, VT
  • Stagedoor Manor- located in Loch Sheldrake, NY
  • US Performing Arts Camp- locations throughout the country

 

Other popular camps include sports, music, and the traditional sleep-away camp. Summer is meant to be fun, and these camps provide a fun, stimulating atmosphere for teens to pursue their interest, as well as force teens to get adjusted to new situations and people, an essential life skill.

 

 

Teen Boot Camps: Alternatives, Consequences and Results?

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Recently there has been a lot of discussion about teen boot camps and sending troubled teens into the wilderness for a little tough love, life experience and time away from the home environment.

A Federal report, released on October 10, 2007 by the Government Accountability Office, gave detailed accounts of 10 cases where teenagers died while on six different wilderness programs. The reports stated horrendous examples of abuse, mistreatment and punishments that the teens had to endure before their death.

I received many emails and calls from clients and parent friends asking me if I had experience with these camps and if I knew any families who had used a boot camp for their teen. During High School, although I had friends whose parents threatened sending them to these camps, none actually went. Yet, in College I did meet two boys who had gone to correction camps. One of the boys (these were two separate occasions and the boys did not know each other), went to a wilderness correction trip for three months while in High School. He seemed utterly scarred by the experience and refused to talk about it in detail with me. It only came up when I mentioned writing “You’re Grounded!” for parents, and he commented that his parents did not even try to punish him, they let a camp do it. This comment alone showed me something very important about teen and parent perceptions about camp.

Parents often find camps as an absolute last resort, many parents are at the end of their rope by the time they need to contact a boot camp. Yet, as was the case with my friend, he felt that his parents gave up on him and abandoned him instead of trying to help him.

The second boy I met had attended a boot camp where campers hike through Colorado mountains and spend many days alone in the woods with little provisions as a form of survival test. He said that the camp was meant to make teens more self-reliant and appreciate their ‘cushy’ lifestyle back home. He said that he did not resent his parents, but instead of becoming more self-reliant and appreciative, he felt angry after the program. He said that his relationship with his parents remained the same, but he felt that he had ‘hardened’ from the experience and has had trouble opening up to friends, girls and family since.

Again, this story is demonstrative of the fact that many of the camps simply want to instill fear in their attendees so that when they return home, they do not disobey rules or rebel. Yet, this fear can spread to the positive and healthy aspects of teen’s lives by making teens feel fearful and lack faith in interpersonal relationships. So what should parents do if they have a troubled teen?

Before a Camp:

• Consistency and Routine: Often times, teens rebel because of hormones or undesired change. Therefore, the more habits, systems and routines you have in the house the more consistency the teen will have in his/her life and the more likely they will find comfort in ‘normalcy.’
Family and Community Involvement: A study by CASA of 2000 families found that having family dinners is the most likely way to prevent your child from doing drugs. Family time and involving your teen or child in community activities with religious groups, community service or at YMCA’s can help a teen find other outlets for anger or fear.  When the is family is involved, it benefits your teen.
• Break from bad friends: Certain teens have ‘bad’ behavior because of negative influence from friends. Try to encourage activities in the community rather than hanging out with negative enablers and strengthens . Or take a family trip to get away from these kids. Often times, sending teens to grandparents, aunt’s or uncle’s houses can be a sufficient break away from bad influences.
• Empowerment, love and support: Some teens thrive off of any kind of attention, this means that punishments and arguments simply feed their need for attention. So make sure to give them positive attention, tell them you have faith in them, that they are smart, and have a good future, show them you are there for them no matter what. Even if this does work immediately, as seen with my friend above, they will remember that you were there for them after this hard stage.

End of the Rope:

• Family camps are better than boot camps: There are many camps, especially church and temple camps that are for entire families. This is where all family members have activities together and separate and can be a good break and a time where you can bond away from the home, bad friends and trigger points.
• Send them to a relative: As mentioned above, sending teens to a relative’s house for the summer or for a school break can help keep them out of trouble when there is no school and give them a chance to connect in a different community.
• Do your Research: If you must, there are some good ‘correction’ camps out there. Steer away from ‘tough love’ camps and make sure there are therapists working at the facility. Get referrals and do plenty of research and surprise visits, remember what camps want to show you, they will, and what they do not want to show you, they won’t.

If you are having a hard time with your teen remember that the relationship comes in cycles and do not be afraid to get outside help with a therapist, counselor or at their schools.

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